It's easy to be in touch when everything is going well. But as soon as a problematic situation occurs, partners can begin to hide their true feelings from each other.
When you do not share your inner life, do not make your emotions obvious, you move away from your partner. The distance between you increases.

To understand how far you have moved away or how close to a happy relationship, you should ask yourself a few questions:
- Do I hide my pain so that my partner does not find out about my weaknesses?
- Do I hide my vulnerability from my partner so that my partner does not gain such power over me that I can be destroyed?
- Do I hide my tears and resentment so as not to look defenseless, as if I can not stand up for myself?
- Do I try not to ask for support so that my partner considers me strong?
- Do I show my partner all the power of my love and joy from the fact that I have him? Or am I afraid to show it, so as not to think that I love more than he?
- Do I confess my mistakes? Or am I afraid that he will understand that I am not perfect?
- Do I hide the fact that I'm angry with him? In order not to hurt, so as not to leave. Am I trying to be comfortable? How often do I endure without speaking, knowing that if I can't do it anymore, I'll leave?
- Am I afraid to say that I love, to give my tenderness, so that I don’t realize how valuable I am?

When we share the most intimate, ugly and different corners of our soul, and get the experience that we are accepted as such, it is priceless.
It heals and brings you closer.
And this is the only path to the depth of emotional intimacy and happy relationships.