Sometimes winter comes, sometimes summer comes. If you always have the same weather, you will feel stagnant. You have to learn to love everything that happens. That's what I call maturity. You have to love what you already have. Immaturity always lives in “what if” or “it would be nice”, but never in “is”, but “is” is reality. Everything that “would be good” is just a dream. Whatever the reality is, it's good. Love it, rejoice in it and relax in it. If something is missing, forgive. Everything changes... life flows and changes. Nobody stays the same; sometimes wide open spaces open up, sometimes there is nowhere to move. Both are good. Both are gifts of existence. You need to learn the kind of gratitude that gives thanks for everything, no matter what happens. Just enjoy what is happening - it, and nothing else, is happening right now. Tomorrow, maybe one thing will change and there will be another; then enjoy another. The day after tomorrow, maybe something else will happen. Enjoy the third. Do not compare with the past, with useless fantasies about the future. Live in this moment. Sometimes hot, sometimes very cold, but both are necessary; otherwise life will disappear.“