Hello My Friend. This is not A Bad Site. The Ladies are not mean. After having lived over Ten Years in Ukraine , I need to let you know something. The Ladies do indeed like Big Men. You may not think so, trust me I know. They take pride in there Men . They feed them and take very good care of them. They do like big men.
I will say something else. The way they are speaking to you is the way they know how to speak. They are using what English they know and are telling how they feel. We, you and I are English speaking Men. English is not there first language. It is fact there 3rd and at times their 4th language. The translators here are not the best . Once again the language is not their 1st. They in fact may call you and say you are fat instead of Big. When Big is in fact what they are trying to say..
I will say this to you. if you have not traveled to the Former Soviet Union. Go!! Buy a ticket and go. You will see a big difference in the way you are reading their words and what they are actually saying. You may try learning some Ukrainian or Russian and see how you sound. Trust me it will open your eyes real wide. It takes a special soul to do what you are trying to do. You started this , now finish it..Cheers from one Big Man to another. Patrick