In a pair where there is no trust between partners, a kind of cold war takes place: each army carefully guards its borders and secrets - after all, any information will be used against it. If help is needed, the warring parties will ask for it from friends or relatives - just not from a partner.

But if, despite the pain and disappointment, you still plan to find your happiness, and not shoot back all your life from potential enemies and sit in a trench of saving loneliness, you will have to learn to trust people again.

I suggest not to look back at past experiences and, if necessary, to work hard on yourself in order to stop living in anxiety and open up to your loved one again.

In truth, we spend too much energy to prevent something terrible that actually does not depend on us, and may not happen at all. You can't insure yourself in everything, accept it. Why not just enjoy life?