All my men seem to be from the same collection, all sooner or later turned out to be abusers, although they did not show themselves right away. I understand that you can make a mistake once, but constant mistakes are already a system. Perhaps I'm doing something wrong in the first place?
I grew up in a family with certain traditions and rules of conduct. Dad was a military man, but then he retired and went into business, quite successfully. But the habit of command remained, and indeed in this regard, our family had iron discipline. Mom was always more focused on dad than on us, but we (my older brother and I) didn’t feel abandoned, on the contrary, control was complete. Since childhood, I got used to the fact that I'm not on my own.

But when I got married, my husband was completely different.
I began to command him, he did not like me, but he fulfilled all my whims! This is fine? I became completely bored with him, because nothing happened in our lives!
I have a question for you? What happened next in my life? Can you post your guesses?