But the basics of the psychology of relationships say: any principles should be applied deliberately, otherwise we risk not getting what we expected. We often confuse honesty and dumping unnecessary information on the head of a partner, and these are completely different things. There is the necessary knowledge, and there is something that is not necessary to know, it is not even necessary.
This means that I want to know about my partner's past. But I do not need the details of an intimate life.
There are people who have a desire to talk about their previous relationships or, conversely, ask a loved one about his connections. This is explained both by a too literal understanding of the word “trust” and by scripted attempts to hurt a partner or get a reason to be offended. There is little health here.
Talking about our past connections, we involuntarily plunge into them again, remember, and if we have a good imagination, then we feel there again. Not only do we question our current relationship, but we also experience the feelings of another person who reads our condition.



P.S. I want to find a relationship here!