No matter what you do, the main thing is to direct the energy in the right direction. It must be remembered that any relationship is an exchange of energy. And answering the question of what kind of man I need, I remember that this is the person to whom I will give my energy. To whom do I want to give it? An honest answer to this question instantly removes everything superfluous from my life, and especially the so-called goats, who for some reason endlessly appear in my path.
I am not afraid of my desires and always careful in wording. You don't have to date a man just because you can't screw in light bulbs, a close friend once remarked to me, observing my then sluggish relationship.
Watch happy couples. They are few, but they are. I know sometimes when you are alone it can be painful. But then you will understand what brings them happiness, and whether it will bring the same happiness to you. Saturate with their positive energy, usually such vibes come from lovers that fill everyone around with love. And fall in love!
P.S. I want to find a relationship here!