Set a goal that will inspire you.
If you still don't have a burning desire or goal, relax and let your imagination wander into the world of fantasy.
Imagine that you have all the resources you need and absolutely everything you wanted. Don't stop yourself.
Choose a goal that really inspires you and makes you smile.
When Edmund Hilary decided that he wanted to conquer Everest, he knew that no one else could do it. Everyone who tried died.
He went from New Zealand to Nepal and tried to conquer the top for three years in a row. And he succeeded - in 1953.
A global goal.
Many of us find it difficult to follow a big goal. Our confidence could be shattered by failure and criticism.
After being taught to walk and talk, after being pressured to do well in school, we can lose confidence in ourselves.
Depending on how damaged our self-esteem is, we may need to seek the support of a self-esteem coach. Then we will be able to dream like children again and set ourselves global goals.
Brainstorm.
Sit down and make a list of all the goals you plan to achieve this season.
Professional goals can be related to increasing income or climbing the career ladder. Personal goals can be a new home, a loved one, or working on your body. When you write down goals, don't worry about how you will achieve them. Write down all the desires that you currently have. Do not judge your goals and do not compare them with the goals of friends or colleagues.
Only you can answer the question: what do I really want? What makes me smile and excite me? What is worthy of my time and effort?
Make a decision.
This is the hardest part. From all the ideas written down during the brainstorming, you need to choose the one that attracts you the most.
Trust your gut and don't ask anyone for advice.
Intuition is the best compass we have. Therefore, it is important to do without advice from the side.
if you desire something greater and more beautiful than anything you have ever achieved, be prepared to control your inner heads.
They will cast doubt on your plans.
You don't need to know at the very start "how" you are going to achieve your goal. Just make a decision. You will find out "how" along the way.
Find professional support.
If you are serious about achieving a big goal, the fastest way to achieve it is to find a coach or mentor who knows how to get you there.
Just make sure that this person can really deliver.
Keep the goal always in front of your eyes.
take a piece of paper and briefly describe your goal. Keep this piece of paper.
Always write in the present tense, as if you have already achieved the goal.
"Today is December 31, 2017. I am so happy and grateful because my book is already published."
Choose a time when you should reach the goal.
Keep this piece of paper in the toilet or somewhere else so that you can constantly see it and re-read it at least twice a day.
The goal should always be fresh in your mind.
Goal setting.
Write down the goal in detail as if you were explaining it to a stranger.
This will "draw" you even deeper into the process and help you develop a plan.
If it is a personal goal - to attract a woman or a man - be specific and create an image of the person you want to meet and the future relationship in small details.
This may include physical data, character, hobbies, how you will spend your time and how you will feel around your loved one.
Write it in the present tense as if you have already met her.Focus and repeat.
When you have formulated a goal statement, read it aloud twice a day - in the morning and in the evening.
If you prefer, you can record the goal on a recorder or other audio medium and listen to it twice a day.
This will keep your goal alive. You will be sure that you will focus on its implementation every day.
Constant repetition is an effective tool and a good psychological principle for achieving success.
Create a visual board.
Our brain thinks in pictures.
When you see a clear picture of your goal, you stay focused and inspired.
For example, if you want to move and live near the sea, create a collage at least similar to the dream house.
Look at it every day.
Create milestones to achieve your goal.
If you create a goal that excites and inspires you, it is likely that you do not know how to achieve it. After all, they have never done anything like this.
And make a little progress every day
Be prepared to review the plan and analyze it on your own if you are achieving the goal on your own.
Find an accountability friend or partner.
When it comes to concrete actions to achieve our goal, we often "skip".
When we are uncomfortable, we retreat, but discomfort is part of the process.
Old habits die hard. So we need someone who can hold us.
Ask a responsible friend or mentor for help. Check in with them on your progress each week.
This will keep you in good shape and help you achieve your goal.
Surround yourself with people who will support you.
When we do not feel the support of loved ones and family, the desire to go to our goal often disappears.
Discuss your goal with those who share your passion and offer support.
For example, if your goal is to start your own business and increase your profits, consulting friends who are barely making ends meet is not a very good idea.
As you forge a new path for yourself, you may temporarily part ways with people who do not support you.
But it is essential for achieving the global goal.
people who will support you.
When we do not feel the support of loved ones and family, the desire to go to our goal often disappears.
Discuss your goal with those who share your passion and offer support.
For example, if your goal is to start your own business and increase your profits, consulting friends who are barely making ends meet is not a very good idea.
As you forge a new path for yourself, you may temporarily part ways with people who do not support you.
But it is essential for achieving the global goal.