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"crib" for men: how to win the heart of a girl on a first date
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Put on your suit

Men in suits are businesslike, successful and rich. At least that's the impression most women have. Even if you've never worn a suit, even if you have to rent one, do it! Come to your first date in a jacket and trousers. There is no need for extra officialdom, no tie and bow tie, but a jacket and clean, sparkling shoes are a must.
Tip: It's best to bring a shoe polish with you. There is a risk that your shoes will get dirty and this will ruin the overall impression.

By the way, there is an opinion that the fair sex always evaluate a man by his shoes. If you show up to a date in the old running shoes you usually wear in the morning, you can turn around and walk back.

Choose the right place

It would be best to take the girl to a restaurant or cafe. A romantic atmosphere will contribute to pleasant communication, gourmet dishes will cheer you up, and light alcoholic drinks will allow you to relax a little in order to get to know each other better.
If you take a girl to the cinema, there is a risk that she will not like the movie. Walking in the park for the first meeting is not suitable a priori. Extreme entertainment, especially, will not be appreciated by every lady. Therefore, a restaurant and a cafe is the best option. You should not go to a noisy place - choose a cozy and quiet place for a meeting where you will feel comfortable talking.

Tip: When a girl says "What a nice place!" (and she will definitely say this), answer that you often come here alone or with friends. Otherwise, the companion may think that this is your "den" for dates, and instead of having a good time, she will fantasize about how many girls have already been here before her.

Be generous

Be generous! Women are very fond of generous men, even if they say that "money is not the main thing for them." When a man is ready to spend without counting every penny, women simply melt! Believe me!

And most importantly, do not skimp on tips. If the bill seems too big for you, don't show it. If the lady notices that you are surprised, shocked, or even upset, most likely, the evening can be considered over, and you can’t even count on a second date.

Tip: even generosity should be in moderation! Do not overdo it, otherwise the girl will consider you a spender, which will also negatively affect the further development of events.

Compliment her

No wonder they say that women love with their ears. And there is! Ladies just love to be complimented, but even this issue needs to be approached wisely. Banal compliments like "You are beautiful today" your companion, most likely, will simply ignore. The same goes for "acted" compliments, such as "with you I'm like in paradise" or "next to you my heart melts."

It is best if what you say refers to any details in her appearance and image. "You have very graceful hands", "I like how playfully this strand is knocked out of your hair" and so on.

Tip: in no case do not compare her with other women, even in a positive way. Don't talk about them at all! On the first date, there is only one lady for you, and she sits opposite.

Make a surprise

But this will be the "finishing blow" in winning the girl's heart! Pretend that you need to leave for a minute and return to her with a bouquet of beautiful flowers. All girls just love surprises, so believe me, she will appreciate such a seemingly insignificant and simple gesture.
At the end of the evening, invite your companion to take a selfie together. If she agrees - that's all, we can assume that she is yours! Just do not need to upload photos to the network on the same day and change marital status to "have a girlfriend." Be prudent and unhurried, wait a while, and she herself will ring up all her friends that she has a new "oh, what a cool" boyfriend.

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