In the nineties, there was an established type of enviable groom: a wealthy businessman in a crimson jacket. A jacket is like a marker of success, just like being wrapped from head to toe in Louis Vuitton or Balenciaga now. It was with such a man that the most luxurious girls dreamed of meeting. From them, such men expected an attractive appearance and model parameters. win-win principle. Over time, the psychology of finding a groom has changed. A new trend emerged in which coaches taught how to marry a simple, inconspicuous man, inspire him and get a successful businessman as a result. Distorted Vedic teaching, in which the role of a woman as an inspirer turned out to be extremely exaggerated. What kind of women do successful men actually prefer? In fact, it depends on the psychological age of a particular person.
For a psychological teenager, it is important to demonstrate their "consistency". A beautiful woman nearby is the same attribute of success as a car or expensive brand items. Why is that? Because the main need is the recognition of his achievements, the external assessment of the environment. And the beauty companion adds "points" and confidence to him. What is the lifespan of such a relationship? Short. If a man does not mature psychologically, he will constantly change one companion for another: older ladies will give way to younger ladies. What is important for a woman to understand? That due to psychological maturity, a man may not feel the need for emotional intimacy. Barter is key in such relationships. And it is important for a woman not to deceive herself if she has an internal request for intimacy.

For a psychologically mature man, it is not so important how the woman next to him looks. Why? He saw a lot of things and tried a lot of things while going through the stages of growing up. For a psychologically mature person, the opinion of the environment is generally of little importance, because, first of all, he relies on his own opinion about himself. In companions, with a high probability, he sees a girl with whom he can feel as relaxed and calm as possible. It would never occur to any mature man to demand from a woman exceptional immersion in her life. He will be pleased if a woman sincerely admires him, can listen, share something important and personal. But at the same time, she has her own hobby, her own work, from which she enjoys and acquires a state of fullness.