Read this to the end. It may help you avoid heartache. I have been on this site and many others for years. There are certainly men and women that are not real here. And there are many others that are seriously looking for love and marriage. How can you tell the difference? There are some clues. If a girl asks you for presents - run. If a man talks to you forever but never makes plans to see you - he is married or not real. If a girl wants to talk about sex with you before she truly knows you - then she is not real - or you wouldn't want to marry her anyway. This site provides great opportunity to write each other and exchange photos. Use this feature. You can learn a great deal about how much someone cares about you by how much effort they put in writing you. I am not a great fan of chat - it costs a fortune - but if money is no object you can learn a great deal about someone through it. When chatting ask many questions and if you get only small responses or "smiley faces" she is talking to four other men and doesn't have time to answer your questions. Video chat is even more but priceless. It gives both of you the opportunity to truly meet and understand who you are corresponding with. In real life many people do not look like their professional pictures. We all want to put our best foot forward but exchanging current real life pictures is the best policy. For men, when you decide to meet the love of your life plan to spend most of your time with her but make sure you have several other potential meetings set up. Sometimes, it just doesn't work out and it's a long way to go to find that out when you get there. Of course she will want to know you are coming only for her but everyone has a right to meet and choose and you are looking for a wife that you can love and connect to - not shopping for a wife from the store by how she looks. Lastly, these sites are portals made up of hundreds of agencies. When you find a good agency they will take the time to find out what you are looking for and pair you with ladies that are a good match for you.

Have faith and do not give up. As men, we are here for a reason. Most women here are smart, beautiful, & want strong families. If we could find this in America we would not be here. But with all things in life - what you put into it is what you get out of it. So find a few girls that you are truly interested in and spend some time getting to know them and then - go see them! The woman of your dreams is waiting for you!