young love

The tasks of boys and girls in adolescence (from 15-16 to about 20 years old) are to learn how to make friends, build close ties. They need authority that is not parental, belonging to their own kind, learning new things and experimenting. This also manifests itself in love (sexual) relationships. Their sexuality is just awakening, so often love is innocent. Boys and girls can be friends and at the same time not get into each other's underpants, and for this age this is the norm.

The other extreme of this age is sexual experimentation. Many young people begin to have sex, lose their virginity not out of love and after a long rapprochement, but more out of curiosity or, again, out of the need to belong to a group of their own kind and not be a "black sheep". And since teenage protest and the desire for freedom (and this is normal at this age) often pushes for actions that are the opposite of what parents and teachers teach, someone begins to actively explore themselves in sex. Therefore, group sex, relationships between two boys and one girl or two girls and a boy, same-sex love is a fairly common occurrence. And this does not mean that now these children will grow up as perverts, incapable of love and relationships in the generally accepted sense. Often, having experimented, young people come to what their parents taught: create families and have children.
Love in youth

Around the age of 20, the need to perform a biological function is already included: to have children. A strong reproductive instinct includes the active production of hormones in the body that are responsible for attraction to the opposite sex. Therefore, at a young age it is so easy to fall in love and succumb to passion. At the same time, the rational calculating mind has not yet had time to take shape, because it is formed in the process of life experience. Therefore, "ratio" does not inhibit spontaneity, and boys and girls at this age fall in love and get married under the power of feelings.

Plus, young people, who have not yet formed a clear idea of how and "where" they want to live, are under strong pressure from society. Parents, relatives, collective stereotypes demand to quickly create families and lead a common life. In addition, young people themselves are already ready and want to escape from parental care and find a way out in relationships and the creation of their families.
mature love

Closer to 35 years, the age of mature love begins. If people have kept their families, often in these families the relationship has long been simply related, without passion. Sometimes relationships come to mutual dislike, and people pull the wave of marriage for a long time, not daring to get a divorce. Only a small number of people after 10 or more years of marriage reach a new level of relationship, when love can really be called mature, between two psychologically mature people. Such love is not as crazy and burning as the love and passion of youth, but it is very deep and hot. If couples manage to maintain this love, then they can be attributed to a small percentage of the lucky ones.

But in our time, most often people approach adulthood after being married and divorced. Or what is happening now more and more often, still not having the experience of marriage and parenthood. By this age, men and women already had their losses, experienced pain. They are very careful in relationships, and often, afraid of getting burned, they blow on the water. Caution and the desire to spread the straw in advance deprives spontaneity. The voice of reason drowns out sensuality, and then in adulthood it can be very difficult to fall in love. Most often, people are in a state of frustration, that is, blocked sensuality. If someone manages to inspire confidence and melt feelings, then often this unrealized sensuality bursts out in an indomitable fountain and turns into an obsession. Having received another pain, a person closes for a longer period. And so on until the next time he decides to open up to someone. This is more inherent in women, men most often close and consider all women evil.

It is very good if at this age people find the courage to love again. Then they have a chance to build really strong mature relationships, because, given the accumulated life experience, they already have something to give to each other.
Love in old age

Those who say that it becomes harder to fall in love with age do not understand older people who start relationships in their 60s and 70s. But it is possible, and love in old age can be bright and beautiful.

Somewhere after 50 years, when the children have already flown out of the nest, people come to their homes, begin to look around in search of their new place in life. They have already paid off their social debts, they do not have to fight for survival, they are financially independent, they already have adult children. And then they can find this place in new interests, travel, as well as new love. This love can be as free and spontaneous as in youth, but at the same time quite wise. One older woman who, in her early 60s after the death of her husband, began a relationship with a man a couple of years older than her, said: "It was only in these relationships that I understood what men and women do in bed."