I have read the blogs here about scam or not and those who have bad experiences.
So how do you know if the woman is serious or if she is just stringing you along?
I met the most wonderful woman here, and after talking for 8 months, she allowed me to come meet her. It was the best time and she was wonderful! I fell in love with her and I thought she felt the same way! Since then, she has said we have exclusive relations, and I don't write or chat with anyone but her. We talk everyday for 2-3 hours and on some Saturdays for 6-7 hours. Yea, it is very expensive and I wish we could talk in other way, but she does not have computer and says in cafe she can't get other chat like google. We have been together for almost 2 years now, but, she still will not allow me to know her surname or have her contact info. She never wants to talk about relations or future together. She just wants to talk every day, so I am left to wonder, hope and wish for a great future with her and guessing she wants the same coz she comes to talk to me every day. What makes you wonder is when she comes to me every day and on weekends, and she is also on her other sites at same time. She says she talks only to me and just because she logs into other sites, does not mean she is there writing or talking to anyone. She says to trust her, so I trust her, because I believe she is a good, honest and faithful woman. But after so much time passes, one does start wonder and lose hope when nothing can be said about being together or future.
So, how do you tell for sure if a woman is serious and really wants a life with you?
I think you have to go with what your heart tells you and take the chance of either having the true love you seek or being betrayed again. I am hoping for the true love that will last for my lifetime)) Nika is the best woman I have met, and together I know we could have happy family, loving and caring with each other always!
So when you meet the woman you feel is the right one, you should talk only to her, and you have to decide if you want to wait for long time for her, or if after some time and things do not progress, if you should end it, and find woman who is ready for all you want to give them, and ready to give you the same in return.