It used to be that women could found husband only if she was young and beautiful. These days, some women are still afraid to try to find their happiness after 30. But why? Isn't there a chance to be happy after 30?

This complexes and fears are laid in us in childhood.

1.✅ Mom Experience
Psychological trauma, heavy memories from the past associated with men, are a barrier. The girl saw that her mother had become unhappy over the years and now she was afraid to take the first step. Afraid of becoming like an always sad mother.

2.✅ Stereotype in society
Beauty and age standards put a lot of pressure on a woman and she has complexes that she is too old or overweight. Afraid her hair isn't perfect, her lips aren't plump enough, her legs aren't long enough. But that's not what they fall in love with... They fall in love with a character, with bright eyes that have light and love!

3.✅ Creation of an idol
Of course, in fantasy, a woman could draw an ideal prince for herself, but she never found him in real life. And now he can not build a personal life. It is important to understand what qualities are really important, and not what fashion and women's magazines dictate. Not everyone needs princes, the most important thing is kindness and a big heart.

😉I really hope that my thoughts on this matter will help someone open their hearts to love, stop being afraid and start acting