💓💑 Love exists, yes. Another question - what is this love? Is it happy? If not, how can you make it happen?

✨ Someone might find the answer in this list; someone at least stumbles upon useful reasoning in this direction, I am glad to share my reasoning with you 👄

A few years ago, I discovered the difference between a 👨‍🍳 chef and a regular chef. I used to be sure that the chef is the one who reproduces dishes according to proven recipes better than other chefs. A misconception that many sin, and by no means only in the context of cooking.

👨‍🍳 It turns out that by polishing to a shine what is already known and worked out, it is impossible to break through the thin ceiling separating the “cook” from the “chef”. You don't become a chef by following other people's recipes; they can become only by creating their own 💯

💑👄 With a happy relationship, everything works in the same way: it’s not the meticulous adherence to the rules that someone says that makes a couple happy, but the creation of their own unique ones based on them. And no matter how "eccentric" this recipe may seem, if it works for the happiness of both, it is good. After all, the happy are not judged.

But. 👇

💯💕 To become a master at anything, you must first learn the basics. And not only to assimilate - you need to live through their frame, lean on them, so that later you can boldly push off from them and, instead of a stain of disappointment, create your own work of art from them.

✔1. Proper pauses are the law of maintaining interest in a relationship 💝

✔2. The meaning of what we say or do to a person is always in his reaction to it.

✔3. The roles we play determine our relationships

💑💓 I so want everyone to meet their love here, find happiness and build harmonious relationships 👫🏡

Good mood everyone, Lesya 💜