Look ladies and gents. Contact information is a must for being exclusive to each other. You meet you meet each other fall in love, want exclusive rights to that person. What them to not leave you. Then give them a reason to stay. I have no problem using this site until after we meet. After the meeting you NEED to make a decision. Take me or leave me. I'm sure when I like someone and I don't need to weight my other options. If you are then you're stringing them along. Playing games. Period. End of story. It's as simple as that. Because if you and I meet and we want to be exclusive you better believe you need to get rid of your profile just like I will. If you don't I should assume that you're not as interested as you claim and are lying. Do you women have any idea how expensive it is to talk on here and afford a trip to there? During the cheap season you're looking at anywhere from $2000-$3000 USD. The summer oh god add another $1000-$2000 to the last figure. If you care then help your man by trying to talk through cheaper means. Oh and don't forget the whole immigration process you'll have to get through to be with your man. Be mindful of how much us men are spending on YOU! While you're being indecisive. I don't see any of you actually coming to see me. Some of you say it, but when you have to make good on that you change the subject. I'll stop talking when that happens. Man up or shut up.