Ladies! What's wrong with going to your man? I know you have to have a international passport and visa. I know there are different kinds and everyone has it's limits on how much time you can stay in the US unless you are married. So my question is. Since you know you're looking for love online and might meet a man from the US. Why not already have the international passport and visa ready, so you don't have to wait? Now as far as women always trying to keep it traditional. Let's keep the traditions for when you finally get with your man. It's 2015... There is nothing wrong with a woman going to her man. You feel you like him, can trust him, and want to be with him. Go to him. Why let other people's fears and doubts, ruin your chance for happiness? Not all men are alike, just as all women are not alike. When I speak. I speak for me, not all men. I don't know why some men do the stupid things they do. Please stop asking me why some men cheat, lie, beat, or just treat women like second class citizens? I treat mine when I have her, like a queen. Yes... I do expect a woman, even though we are strangers to come meet me here in NY if she really wants to get to know me. Marriage is my ultimate goal. I'm very interested in your day to day world, how your parents and grandparents are doing. Even your kid(s) if you're already blessed with one or more. I'm already blessed with them and will be blessed with more when I find wy wife. I'm not on this site to exchange multiple letters or video chats. I'm on here for one purpose. TO FIND A WIFE...