As a single mother of one son, I know firsthand just how difficult it is to find someone who meets those criteria. I've been on countless dates, and while some have been pleasant, none have felt like the right fit. I've been ghosted, lied to, and disappointed more times than I care to admit.

But what makes finding love even more complicated is the fact that I already have a child. I can't just focus on my own wants and needs. I have to consider how any potential partner will fit into our lives. Will he be a positive influence on my son? Will he treat him with kindness and respect? These are the questions that keep me up at night.

There have been times when I've felt like giving up. It would be so much easier to just focus on my career and my child and forget about trying to find love. But then I remember that I deserve to be happy and to find someone who loves me for who I am, flaws and all.

It's not just finding a decent man that's hard. It's also figuring out how to balance a new relationship with the demands of motherhood. There are only so many hours in the day, and as a single mother, I'm already stretched thin. Adding a new relationship to the mix can be overwhelming.

But despite the challenges, I know that it's possible to find love as a single mother. It may take more time and effort, but it's worth it in the end. And when you do find that special someone who loves both you and your child, it makes all the ups and downs of dating worth it.

In the meantime, I'll continue to focus on being the best mother I can be and living my life to the fullest. I know that the right man will come along when the time is right, and until then, I'll enjoy the journey and all the lessons it has to offer.