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Love by the rules: what to do if passion has passed?
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FINAL ANALYSIS

Before exposing the relationship to a serious shake-up, it would be nice to analyze your life together and remember at what point the first alarm bells appeared, when you began to lose interest in each other in bed. Routine life, monotony in s..x, old grievances or banal fatigue - sort it out when you started to shirk intimacy, referring to the notorious migraine or heel pain. Suddenly, intimate relationships cooled off for some specific reason. It is worth discussing it, and everything can return to its previous course. Talk more often, remember why you fell in love with your partner. Remind him and yourself of this. And do not forget to ask why he fell in love with you.

A CHANGE OF SCENERY
As you know, s..x should be not only regular, but also varied. To refresh a relationship, sometimes it is enough to change the environment, come up with a game scenario or something extreme (make love in a balloon?), in the end, just change your image and wardrobe. By the way, in order to revive passion, it is not necessary to rent a suite in a luxury hotel: you can update the interior of your own bedroom to make it more romantic. But most importantly, don't forget to spend time alone. At least once a month.

THE GAME OF IMITATION
sychologists say that the desired must be visualized - then it will certainly turn into reality. Remember your previous emotions for your partner, thoughts about him, some significant moments for you, actions and words before your s..x life became boring. Try acting like you used to, look s..xier , wear a perfume he/she has always liked or loved. Reenact your first date in a restaurant, a romantic trip - melt into that state, and a convincing game of imitation will bear fruit very soon.

BREAKING STEREOTYPES
When a relationship gets chilly, the best and first thing to do is to give up old habits. In terms of sexual relations, conservatism is unacceptable. Allow yourself to go beyond the usual limits, experiment, fulfill your wildest fantasies - even such trifles as background music, a new position or s..x toys can create miracles with intimate life. The main thing is not to scare off your partner in the pursuit of novelty and remember that passion in a relationship is a rollercoaster: there will always be ups and downs. You just need not to sit back and wait for a new round, then the honeymoon will last forever.

Psychologists also say that scheduled s...x, oddly enough, helps build relationships. When you live all day long in anticipation of the evening, it kindles passion.

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