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How to win over any man in 12 minutes
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1:00 MIN. SMILE
The expression "love at first sight" can be safely rephrased as "love at first smile." 64% of men note that it is the smile with which a girl meets a potential partner that is the decisive factor in the matter of further communication. This happens even before you exchange a word or two.
2:00. APPEARANCE
About how beautiful you are in soul, he just has to find out. Provided that the second minute of the test you will spend brilliantly. It is at this moment that partners subconsciously evaluate each other's appearance. More than half of the respondents can still ignore old-fashioned shoes or an unsuccessful hairstyle, but an unpleasant smell will put an end to further communication in 60% of cases.

3:00. SYNESTHESIA
Remember Pavlov's dog, for whom the light of a light bulb has always been associated with food? Humans, like other animals, can react differently to different stimuli. So, for example, a certain fragrance evokes unexpected memories from childhood, and a color “turns on” a melody in the head. A sexy smell, a comfortable environment or a pleasant taste will help seduce a partner without noticing it.

4:00. VISUAL CONTACT
For 58% of men, visual contact with a partner is very important. Do not forget to confidently look the interlocutor in the eye. But don't overdo it. Don't constantly stare at him.

5:00. VOICE timbre
There are those rare lucky ones in the world who were born with the seductive voice of Scarlett Johansson, others have learned to model it so as not to be rejected. According to statistics, at least a quarter of men on a date pay close attention to a charming female voice.

6:00. THREE QUESTIONS
It's time to strike up a conversation. Harvard University is here to help. Forget clichés like “What are you doing now?”, “How was your day?” or the notorious "About the weather." Using a mathematical algorithm, Harvard experts calculated four win-win questions that will determine your compatibility: “Do you like horror films?” “Have you ever traveled alone?” “Would it be great to leave everything and live on a ship?”, “Which ingredient would you add to the pizza?” If your partner answers the questions the same as you, science gives the green light to your relationship.

7:00. WHATSAPP?
82% of men during the first meeting are annoyed by the sound of a companion's vibrating or ringing phone. When going on a responsible date, forget about the existence of messengers and social networks and do not be distracted by answering the next “very important message”.

8:00. FLATTERY
There are two types of flattery: completely sincere and one that makes the eyebrows crawl up in surprise. Yes, men are certainly greedy for compliments, but you still need to avoid cloying flattery. False notes in your voice will at best be ignored, at worst they will deprive you of a second date.

9:00. WORKING INTERVIEW
The most common mistake on a first date is when communication turns into a tennis tournament or a job interview in a Q&A format. Feel the ground: what topics does your interlocutor willingly support, and which ones is unpleasant for him to talk about? Well-known taboos are the topics of material well-being and former relationships. Do not ask closed questions, that is, those that require a yes or no answer. Choose cues that will help your partner open up. And answer any question yourself as if you are talking about something very pleasant. And then your interlocutor will probably want to call you back.

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