Recently, during a lunch break, I thought about the very concept of happiness.It seems that everyone is looking for him,.Some pretend that they have already found it, but no one can really explain what it is.I think I finally managed to get to the truth.You see, everyone has some goals.We think: I will get this and that and I will be happy.I will achieve this and that, and grace will descend on me.Someone is looking for love and recognition, and someone just wants to live to retirement.
As for me, taking patients one by one, communicating with essentially doomed people, I realized something important.Goals don't make people happy.They only offer a postponement of happiness: sometime in the future to achieve the goal.This can only lead to failure, because by the time you reach the goal, you will no longer be the person who decided to achieve it.Moreover, your mind will be focused on achieving new goals, instead of enjoying what it is.And that's what comes out.Happiness is not a goal, but a state.You just optimize your world, carefully select your environment.So, to just live your life every day.Then you will not need to postpone joy for the future, because your present will be optimized.Don't you think so???If you have an opinion on this, write, it will be interesting to read.
Sincerely yours, Inna