A quarrel with a loved one is normal for any couple. But there are serious problems with reconciliation. Often, for the result, you have to expend such efforts that at the finish line you feel like a thousand squeezed lemons 😬.

This is because many couples make the same mistake. Most likely, you do it too. One partner apologizes to the other, and then immediately begins to behave as if everything is in order and nothing happened🙄 .

And if the other side does not show that everything is already fine, this surprises, annoys and again offends the first partner, who came to put up five minutes ago. At the same time, the person who has just been asked for forgiveness feels pressure. And after a few seconds, he can hear the claim. In such a situation, mutual grievances grow like utility prices 😅.

How to do the right thing
If you have the wisdom to take the first step, say those very words, be patient and wait for the partner to choose the time for a response. Believe me, he will do it at the most opportune moment, when he feels that he is ready😉 .

Know that if a person on the other side of the barricades at the moment of the first step refuses to communicate or even is rude, this is normal. In such ways, we make it clear that we still do not want to put up, we are not ready for the same constructive response. You are a little hasty. The smartest thing to do would be to step aside and wait 🙃.

What is the conclusion
Of course, it is very important to try to meet each other halfway. And it is very good if the instigator of the conflict objectively looks at the situation and decides to take that very first step. But so that everything goes smoothly and reconciliation does not turn into a new quarrel, it is much more important not to rush, to do everything thoughtfully, with an understanding of what is happening 🧐.

Let the other side digest what happened, and if you have already said the words of reconciliation, then do not exert any psychological pressure immediately after them 🙅‍♀️.

Time will pass - your partner will definitely thank you for your understanding and patience 🙂.