My most important task is to take care of myself, and IT itself will come into my life.
Truth: Why won't it come? That's right: when you have already done enough inner work, it is important not to cling to the goal. Keep the golden balance. But the work of finding a girl, when you have already created a basic level, needs to be done every day. Set specific search goals and take steps towards them every day. Every day correspondence, dates, acquaintances. What is a baseline? It is More or less to decide on your vocation and start taking at least the first steps towards it, it is to learn how to manage finances, save money, earn enough for basic financial independence, go through personal therapy to heal your emotional world, create a self-support system - a healthy male circle, and read-learn to create healthy relationships in practice with other people. And when you are ready, it's time to start acting - look for a girl, go on dates more than once and do it purposefully, not from time to time or when it happens from above. "God has no other hands than ours." I write about healthy relationships. If you are not interested in a healthy relationship, you can at least when, at least how and at least with whom to enter into a relationship or not to enter into a relationship at all for the rest of your life! It's your will