In any life process, there is a dialectical combination, determined by one of the laws of Hegel's dialectic about the unity and struggle of opposites. It also exists in love.
The concept of the unity of love, the monogamy of relations between a man and a woman, inherent in most nations and nationalities, professing most of the existing religions, or professing atheism, always speaks of our affection and unity with each other.
At the same time, no matter how much the very concept of love, which for many of us is an unshakable concept, is discussed, there have long been myths about love that have not changed for centuries.
The following specific misconceptions are considered by most people to be the main myths about love.
1. To love means to make a sacrifice in the name of a loved one.
2. To love means to be always with your loved one.
3. To love means to understand each other without words.
4. To love means the following - always and invariably do something in the name of a loved one.
5. You can only love you.
Absurdity, to a greater or lesser extent, applies to all five of the above myths. I don’t want to look like a hypocrite or an immoral person, but I will give a beautiful and intelligible example that will clearly explain the substitution of the desired concept with an absolutely real manifestation of reality, which, unfortunately, clearly cannot be. Let me quote Shota Rustaveli, a classic of Georgian literature, in his poem "The Knight in the Panther's Skin". So Rustaveli, through the mouth of the character of his immortal poem, said: “What you hid is gone, what you gave is yours!” Isn't it very beautiful and humanistic? But in real life, unfortunately, this does not happen. Therefore, the myths I have cited about love can also really damage the relationship between a man and a woman. Of course, all 5 myths happen that they occur and have a place to be. But, unfortunately, not always and not in everything.