Today I want to touch on such a topic as a healthy and strong relationship. What do you think it is? These are relationships in which people respect and listen to each other, trust each other and try to justify trust, care for each other and try to understand the other.
Let's now analyze our relationship according to these criteria and figure out how healthy our relationship is?
1. You care about each other
Taking care of your neighbor is a normal human need. In a healthy relationship, you want to love and be loved! You not only take away, but also easily give away without demanding anything in return. Also, you want to share everything. If you find yourself in an interesting place alone, you will definitely think: “It’s a pity that my half is not around, it would be great to share these emotions”
2. You trust your partner
In a healthy relationship, you do not require every minute report on everything, but trust each other, despite the fact that you are confident in yourself.
In a normal relationship, you do not waste your time on analyzing the partner’s incomprehensible actions and searching for hidden meanings in conversations with friends, but you feel calm and can productively go about your business without imagining betrayal or betrayal in your head.
3. You talk to each other
Communication is an important element of a healthy relationship! You do not think, but ask directly and voice your desires. You do not try to avoid conflicts, but you talk. People do not read minds and may simply not know that you are missing something. You are not shy about asking your partner about what is important to you. And you can not only speak, but also listen. This is also an important element in a relationship.
4. You can count on a partner in a difficult situation
Sometimes we all find ourselves in a difficult situation. In a right and healthy relationship, you should see in a partner a support that will not be afraid and will not run away from difficulties. Your partner is your friend and ally. He is ready to be there, to help at a difficult moment, and not only shares moments of joy and universal fun with you. You can rely on him and know that he will never refuse you.
5. You like to have fun together
You also need to be able to have fun spending time together. I must admit: all people are different, everyone has their own understanding of fun ... It is important that your vision of fun coincides with the opinion of your partner and both enjoy the process.
6. You bring out the best in each other
Normal relationships are built on mutual respect, where two people help each other grow and develop without being forced to change under pressure. In a healthy relationship, you both grow and develop as individuals, rather than becoming the object of constant judgment and criticism from your partner.
7. You respect each other
Mutual respect is the key to a long and successful relationship. You do not manipulate the partner's feelings, but go towards each other, not trying to teach the other about life.
8. You share common values
Probably the most important thing is to look in the same direction and share key life principles. It’s also great to have similar views on how relationships in a family should be built.)
9. You are comfortable being silent together.
It’s really cool to talk about interesting topics, but sometimes it’s more important to be able to keep silent together. In a healthy relationship, you are comfortable just being around. You do not try to fill all the pauses that have arisen with superfluous words and do not get tired of each other if you do not utter a word. You always enjoy the company of your partner.
10. You have your own life outside of relationships.
You love to be with your partner very much, but at the same time you remain a self-sufficient person with your own interests and hobbies outside of relationships. It's cool sometimes to spend time apart, to have your friends and your favorite activities. You allow your partner to have their own interests, which you do not condemn, but respect.
11. You have a similar daily routine
In a normal relationship, you have managed to adjust to the biorhythms of the other without compromising your own health and mood. If you are a morning person and your partner is a night owl and no one wants to change their habits, this can become a problem over time.
12. You are a team
You always take your partner's side, at least in public. Of course, in private, you can always voice what you really think and why your partner acted imprudently or too abruptly, but in public you have learned to play on the same team.
13. You make love
You make love because you enjoy doing it with each other. Both of you will enjoy this activity.
Relationships between people are a job that requires patience, effort and time. This is a difficult but extremely interesting process.
Love  —  is when it's difficult around, and it's easy for you two.