I am a man who for all intents and purpose has lived a life with the "I want it all and want it yesterday" attitude in every aspect of his life. This does not work in any way shape or form in the beautiful and sweet world of love and relationships.
I was blinded by zeal and desire to love so special a woman. I was careless with her and took so many things with her for granted. I was a man on a one way road to loneliness if I continued this path. I could not see the clear signs of a sure life without a very special and gentle woman. Eagerness to have her forever in my life consumed my seeing all that was wrong in my approach to loving her. I was not patient!!!
I am here writing these words for anyone who takes but a moment to read them. I made a careless mistake with my loving lady. Only her love for me and her deeply compassionate nature gave her the sweet words to open the eyes of the man she so loves. I sat for many long hours alone staring at the waves upon the sea. It was then an epiphany of so grand a scale hit me so deep in my conscience.
I was awoken to a very stark reality. What I thought was so caring a love was not as it needed to be. I walked away from that beach a completely changed man. All that was once my attitude about "wanting it all" was left to drift out to sea and disappear over that far horizon!
Why am I writing this here and now? Simple reality! Patience is the key to love's front door and I stood on the doorstep and did not have the right key! I do not want to see anyone make the same careless mistake I did! I write these words in hopes to make just one person's life that much happier for these words.
I learned so much that lonely day on a beach. Now my focus is to make the one woman who means the whole world to me see that the man in her life has a mind set on completely understanding that time and patience will guide us through this life.