So it is spring now and everyone is looking for love. Time and tides wait for no one it is told. Now all are in a hurry to find what has eluded them. The feeling is i have waited to long. So what to do? Find love fast? Well time builds love. Even first sight thing can fail because we did not take the time to get to know someone. The tide will go out and wash away what we have. It is said "fools rush in" and could not be more true when speaking of love. Will it stand the test of time? If you draw a circle around all your loved ones and friends. In time the circle will get smaller. Time will take care of that. Some friends you no longer need or need you. You may out grow them. Family will be there. Will your love choice be there. If you choose right they will. We are all single now because we choose wrong. It took time to find out. Hard lesson right. So did we learn or do we make another mistake to find love? There is great distance between most on this site. The guys get on a plane to date and meet a girl. If the girl told the guy there will be no sex untill we get to know each other. 90 % of the guys would make an excuse not to go or just not show up. The 10 % who go realy care to know you and maybe want to build a future. The othe 90 % are going to be mad at me for saying this but they just want to sleep with a young girl and they can't do that back at home. Not all guys are bad and not all girls are good. We know who we are. The 10 % don't want the girl that will put on a porn show on the cam. The 90 % will say i have to meet her. I can tell you neither will be inside the circle later. So another wrong choice right ? If fools rush in they rush out too. A pretty girl may catch the eye but will she catch a heart and be in the circle? I guess it depends on who she is. Good luck to all here to find the circle of love... ken