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True love inspires you to be better, but does not force you to change.
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Unconditional love is very rare. Usually everyone wants to fix each other, because few people are able to accept their partners for who they really are.

True love is not always roses and butterflies. It can be extremely complex. It's about accepting each other not at the moment, but throughout life, regardless of the difficulties that you have to go through.
Don't expect a person to change. If he is not now what we want him to ideally see, then after a while he will not become so. You cannot love someone and expect them to live up to your idea of who they should be. Love doesn't work that way.

In fact, each of us is able to push a partner to become better, without forcing him to do what he does not want. There is a line in a relationship that should not be crossed. In all successful relationships, there are always boundaries that partners respect.
True love is not selfish. This is the recognition that there are no perfect people in life. Therefore, if we want to love another person, we must love his quirks.

Each of the partners should feel like a free person, and this will allow him to grow in the relationship and feel the support of the other at every step of this path. A partner is someone who is close at a difficult moment. Someone who puts as much into the relationship as you do.

We are not changing another person, but for ourselves. A union in which the partner accepts only some of the traits of your personality is not at all the relationship in which you will be happy.
When we meet our true love, a feeling of true freedom and comfort arises inside us at the same time. We all have our wounds, we all had to feel rejected, we are all human. Nobody's perfect. There are no knights in shining armor.

If you both do the following, then there is true love in your relationship:

You support each other.
You take care of each other.
You don't try to fix each other.
You have similar goals and values in life.
You get along great.
You communicate well with each other.
You don't ignore each other.
You accept each other's shortcomings.
You don't feel like something is missing.
If you have someone you love unconditionally and don't want to lose, then you really have found something special. And for those who are still looking, I can give only one piece of advice - stop. Let love find you, because it always appears in the most unexpected place at the most unexpected time.

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