Feel like a hero
A little boy, a defenseless kitten, a flower, if you like, he spent enough time with his mother, now he has grown up and dreams of being strong. Yes, being strong for a man is normal, even despite the need for whining, complaints about life, it hurts here, it hurts there, the temperature is 36.9, save, help. Believe me - these are exceptions, the rest of the time a man needs to be sure that you admire him and tremble. Because if you don’t tremble, then, excuse me, why are you needed (no, we don’t think so, this is how life tells)? So from time to time, do not forget to tell your lover that he is the smartest, the most courageous, a stone wall, an iron fist, or any other epithets that a man will believe in. Even if he knows he is strong, what good is it when you doubt it?

Relationship without resentment
He doesn't cover his toothpaste, he scatters things, and he never, ever cleans up after himself! And now, please, you have already managed to be offended, yell at him or even burst into tears. In vain. Firstly, no matter how absurd it may sound, most often a man does not understand what exactly you are offended by and, most likely, he thinks that you are angry, because he is completely unsuccessful with you. And, as you know, you can even get sick from the realization of your own inferiority (read also: “6 signs that you like to be unhappy (and how to deal with it)”). Secondly, men cannot stand tears on a physical level. Do not make your chosen one bad. And do not forget - he loses sight of the little things, not because he decided to annoy you, but because a man, unlike a woman, is responsible for the global world, and he simply does not care about a small planet, which includes domestic troubles. Agree, let the big one control better. You will also be calmer.

Don't be ignorant
All men are sure that every woman wants to get married, and if she does not want to marry him specifically, then she is going to marry another. And so in everything - a man must know everything that is within his understanding, and even more. By the way, this does not mean at all that you will need to tell everything as if in spirit. Talk about the main thing, do not hide your feelings, men are much better at inventing things than we are. Couples grow and become stronger as they overcome adversity together. Know that every time you don't say something, you are building walls within the sacred space of the relationship.

Have your own life
Almost all self-sufficient people need personal space. This is fine. To be able to go to a bar with friends, relax on a Friday night in an empty room without having to decide again and again what color to paint the walls, and just be alone in the end. In this, believe me, there is absolutely nothing to worry about.

Plus, you need your own space. Because if you don't have anything of your own, then your relationship is on one leg. Don't be afraid to make friends, stop strangling your lover in a hug
Поддержка
The downside of "I'm a hero" because sometimes even kings need support. By the way, this does not mean at all that you need to make decisions for him, destroy everything around and rebuild, sometimes it’s enough just to hold his hand, believe me, it helps. A man wants to hear from a woman: “Darling, I can’t express in words how much I appreciate what you do for me and the children.” Indeed, no matter what he does, no matter what heights he reaches, he does all this exclusively for you and, perhaps, only partly for himself. But he needs much less alone. Support your chosen one, and the result will not be long in coming.

Loyalty
For a man, the key to a woman's love is her fidelity. If a woman loves, she is faithful - she cannot imagine herself with someone else, because she simply does not need this other. And if we can forgive an accidental betrayal, which is “drunk”, which “means nothing, it happened so”, then for a man this is a blow below the belt. Representatives of the stronger sex, no matter how they position themselves, are owners by nature, which means it can’t be worse than sharing “their own” with someone. Be devoted to your man, and he will answer you in the same way, but what can I say - he will move mountains for you.

S💋x💋
This truth is as old as the world. If there is no s💋x💋 in a couple, then, in fact, there is no couple either. Unless it's a conscious and mutual choice