When we talk about the distribution of responsibilities in a relationship, I think it's important to understand that it should be a process of mutual agreement and compromise. You can't just impose your views and expectations on your partner and assume that it should work.

For me personally, it is important that responsibilities are distributed fairly. I don't think there are "male" or "female" responsibilities - we should all take on what it takes to make our life together comfortable and happy.

I believe that each of us should take responsibility for certain aspects of life as a couple. For example, I do most of the cooking because I enjoy it and am better at it than my partner. But he takes more responsibility for financial issues and technical problems in the house.

However, I think it's important to go beyond just these areas of responsibility. We need to be ready to help each other when needed, and not wait for one of us to necessarily take on a particular task. After all, we are in a relationship to support and strengthen each other, right?

Also, I think it's important to remember that life can be unpredictable and sometimes our partner may need our help even in areas where we don't have experience or skills. In such cases, I believe that we should be ready to support each other and rise to the challenge together.