If we love and appreciate our partner, we can become more open, tolerant, respectful, caring and generous. These qualities can help strengthen relationships and make our lives happier.

However, love can also have negative consequences. For example, a person may begin to sacrifice their interests and values for the sake of a partner, which can lead to a loss of their own identity and self-esteem.

Thus, the change that takes place in us when we are loved depends on our perception of love and our attitude towards ourselves and our partner. If we take care of ourselves and our relationships, then love can be a useful and positive force in our lives.