🤔HUSBAND IS MUCH OLDER than WIFE🤔
Problems in such unions begin much later than the candy-bouquet period. Over time, it becomes obvious that a mature man has conservative and even ossified views, is not as romantic and loving as it might seem at first glance. He reluctantly retreats from his plans, does not always like outdoor activities, finds it difficult to find a common language with friends of the same age as his beloved.

Life plans for mature men, as a rule, have long been folded, and it will be difficult for a woman to integrate into them. Feeling powerless, she will face disappointment: marriage with a large age difference will become more and more like a lottery.

🤔WHAT WILL A WOMAN GET FROM A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MATURE MAN?🤔
The psychology of relationships between couples with a big age difference has its own characteristics. A mature man regards his woman not as a trophy or "table decoration". He cares about the inner content of a person. Therefore, when choosing a companion for life, he will look at her character, worldview, beliefs - in the first place. And only in the second - on age, appearance and sexuality.

In such unions, girls can count on respect, devotion and care, but with a small caveat - their partners will expect the same attitude towards themselves. They are ready to take responsibility and cope with difficulties, but the woman will be required to give something in return. It is quite possible that you will have to give up the attributes of a young and free life - frequent gatherings with friends, spontaneity and noisy parties. A quiet family life should be a priority.

🤔 THE HUSBAND IS MUCH YOUNGER than THE WIFE 🤔
Much more rare is the situation when a woman is older than a man by 5 or more years. Are these relationships long term? Let's look at the pros and cons:
🔸Young men are more romantic than older women of the same age. There is no need to compare here - reckless youth captivates with the sharpness of sensations. However, enjoying these emotions for a long time will not work. For a serious relationship, you still want to be close to a reliable and responsible person.
🔸 In a relationship with a young guy, a woman draws vitality, which allows her to maintain good physical shape. But such a “youth pill” will only help if a woman is confident in herself, her attractiveness.
🔸Young men are more accommodating, ready to compromise. They have not yet fully formed a system of views and preferences, so a wise woman can “sculpt” from this “material” what suits her. She will teach her chosen one everything that an ideal man needs to know and be able to do.
🔸 An obstacle to the happiness of a couple can be the rejection of society (friends, relatives, acquaintances). Of course, when a wife is 5 years older than her husband, this is not as noticeable as when the age difference is 20 years. The bigger the gap, the more your family will be discussed. You need to prepare yourself mentally for this and agree not to react to the caustic remarks of others.
🔸The gap in the financial situation is another minus of unequal marriages. By middle age, women already have some professional experience behind them and earn enough to support themselves. Young guys are just getting on the first steps of the career ladder, so you should not expect strong financial support from them.

🤔 RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN PEALS 🤔
It is believed that the normal age difference for a relationship is 1-3 years. When people are practically the same age, there are not as many differences in their views and life values as there are between representatives of different generations. By the way, such an opinion was formed in society during the Soviet era, when any differences from the conventional norm were condemned.

Today, people are much more tolerant of the difference in the age of spouses. However, there are much more marriages between peers or almost peers. Moreover, the younger the spouse, the more pronounced the tendency to choose a partner of the same age.
The advantages of such unions:

🔸 common interests;
🔸 the same life rhythm and similar experience;
🔸social approval.

💖 Like it or not, but any combination in terms of the age of partners has its advantages and disadvantages. Therefore, it is not surprising that there is no magic recipe that would help spouses live happily together.💖