Start an open conversation not with mutual claims, but with your feelings. Use phrases only in relation to yourself: “It upsets me,” “I would like it,” “I like it,” “I don’t like it.” So you do not require your partner to do what you want, but show him what emotions these actions cause in you. This method has already won the respect of many psychologists.
🥀Show that you are ready for compromises and relationships are important to you. Analyze the complaints and start to slowly change something in your behavior. 🥀Spend little time with your partner - try not to linger at work. Lost attractiveness for a spouse - meet him at home in a breathtaking outfit and arrange a small private performance.
🥀Increase your presence in the thoughts of your lover/beloved. Even when the spouse is at work, it is easy, for example, to send a romantic message or send a small surprise by delivery.
🥀Try to show your interest in life, the thoughts of the chosen one. Do not ignore the question: “How are you?” Find out about successes or failures at work, etc. This will become a kind of caring.
🥀Find a common hobby or activity that both of you enjoy. Perhaps it will be bike rides, going to the gym, cooking dinner together, or watching movies.