there is nothing wrong with helping one another as you get closer and feel more in love, but if your told they need money first off please be careful, especially if you don't have a lot to work with, or your having to work lots to give them money to me that's wrong when your really loved they will also care about how hard and how much you are working to give them nice things, just like if they are talking to more then one woman and care seriously for you, then something is wrong with that, I have been talking the most tom one woman but when asked I try to help others with advice, and try to help,only if I find out its not realm love or not even the right woman, on here then ill go on to the next one best fitted for me, I want you women to know they are men who really care about you, and take the time to find just the one for you best suited, wish you all the best search ever GOD bless, all of your searches,