Such gullibility about dreams is not familiar to everyone, and not even to every lover. Usually we think about what we dreamed about alone and are in no hurry to share what impressed us. To look into an online dream book to find an interpretation of what you see is welcome, but to tell others - well, that's it. Is that a close friend, and then inadvertently.

What confuses us? Perhaps the idea that men are usually lenient with the interpretation of dreams. Or that a dream greeting from the past can alert a partner and, God forbid, cause jealousy, which is fraught with uncomfortable questions.

Meanwhile, talking about dreams is not only enjoyable, but also a useful activity for a couple, recommended by relationship experts for regular practice.

“Discussion of dreams, without a doubt, brings lovers closer, for which there are quite scientific explanations,” Olga Golosova, a psychologist, sexologist and hypnotherapist, reveals the topic. - The famous Swiss psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung considered a dream a means of communication between the conscious and the subconscious, and what could be more penetrating than initiating a partner into the secrets of your subconscious? Trust of this kind evokes a sincere emotional response, strengthens the disposition towards each other, introduces some kind of natural magic into the relationship, an element of spiritual connection. In addition, by the reaction of the partner, you can be sure of the completeness of mutual understanding in the pair. If in response to your story you hear only ridicule, the harmony of your relationship is slightly exaggerated.

On the doctor's advice, you should first find out how skeptical your partner is about discussing dreams, and make it clear that this format is also not familiar to you, but why not try it. When to start a conversation? For example, at breakfast or without leaving the bed. Confidential conversation in bed can easily turn into something more intimate, adding to the list of possible benefits.

A partner can better interpret your dreams. It is believed that, in addition to reflecting the events that take place during the day, dreams tell us the reasons for hidden experiences, however, very veiled. A loving person knows what is bothering you, and at the same time is able to distance himself from the emotions you are experiencing in order to give an objective assessment of what is happening in your soul. Interpretation of sleep "from the outside" with comments from a loved one will help you find answers to your questions.

“Looking into dream books is not a very exciting activity. Another thing is the method proposed by Jung, adds Golosova. “He believed that dreams could contain important messages, ideas, illusions, fantasies, and even telepathic insights. To get to the bottom of this, Jung recommended breaking down the dream into details, following the procedure described by another scientist, the Austrian Wilhelm Stekel. He advised thinking about a dream like an article in a newspaper, and composing a headline for it. Together with a partner, you can just as creatively approach the interpretation of a dream, offering formulations of the meaning of what you saw. It is important to remember that discussing such a delicate matter requires an appropriate approach. Do not rush to conclusions, give each other time to consider the interpretation that came to your / him mind.