Didn't set boundaries. In the past, I was too soft and did not set clear boundaries in relationships. This led to the fact that I was often in situations that I did not like, but I did not know how to get rid of them. I've learned that it's important to set boundaries in a relationship and talk about your expectations.

Didn't listen to my feelings. In past relationships, I often ignored my feelings and did what my partner wanted, even if it was against my wishes. I've learned that it's important to be open with your partner and talk about your feelings, even if it's not easy.

Didn't communicate as equals. I often thought that I needed to do my best to please my partner, even if it meant ignoring my own needs and desires. I realized that it is important to communicate as equals and not to put a partner on a pedestal above my own needs.

Didn't respect herself. In the past, I often made decisions based on what was best for my partner and not for me. I have learned that it is important to respect and love yourself and make decisions based on your own needs and desires.

Didn't talk about problems. I was often afraid to talk about problems in relationships, so as not to disturb the harmony. But I realized that this only aggravates the situation, and that it is important to be open about what I do not like and what I want to change.

As a result, I realized that it is important to respect yourself, to speak openly and clearly