Some of the most common fears that can influence our choice of partner, and how to deal with them:

Fear of loneliness. This fear can cause us to stay in relationships that don't bring us happiness or don't meet our needs, just to avoid being alone again. To overcome this fear, you need to develop your self-esteem and self-sufficiency, learn to enjoy loneliness and give yourself time to find the right partner.

Fear of losing control. This fear can lead us to choose partners who will comply with our demands and not pose a threat to our independence and control. To overcome this fear, you need to learn to trust your partner and give him freedom, as well as work on your own control and confidence.

Fear of betrayal. This fear can cause us to choose partners who won't make us jealous or have the ability to cheat on us. To overcome this fear, you need to develop trust and confidence in the relationship, as well as work on your own jealousy and the ability to communicate with your partner on this topic.

Fear of rejection. This fear can cause us to choose partners who won't reject us or make us doubt our feelings. To overcome this fear, you need to develop your self-esteem and self-confidence, as well as learn to accept rejection and address your emotions instead of suppressing them.