I still do not know why I keep getting letters from women in there teens,twenty"s and thirity's, I under stand that men there do not want to comment to a relationship and want to paly the field for there own bragging rights. And I know why you want a commintment and lasting relationship, It is the most important thing in a womens life to be loved and give love, But why be with some one that is 2 and 3 times your age? The most you can expect is maybe 20 yrs or so before it ends and you feel greif and heart break in loosing your spouse,
I would love to find some one to share my life with but I can not think that some one that young could feel real love for some one that old, knowing that it could not endure to her older age, and especilly if they had kids together, how could he eapect to believe that anyone would be willing to do this knowing they would be left alone in the near future.
I know we as humans do not have any set time to be on this earth and can die at any time with out any notice, but I do not understand why any one would ask for a shorter time for happiness by being with a man with that much age gap. can any one answer this in a logical answer for me??