Low self-esteem
When we have low self-esteem, we attract people who do not respect us and do not support our interests. We often do not see our own worth and do not know what we deserve. Sometimes we even think that we deserve to be hurt or humiliated. But it's not. If you feel that your self-esteem is low, it's time to start working on yourself. Engage in self-development, respect yourself and don't be afraid to demand what you deserve.

Wrong Expectations
When we are looking for a partner, we usually have certain expectations about how it should be. But often these expectations do not correspond to reality. We may be looking for the perfect partner who will live up to our standards, but there are no such people. It is important to understand that each person is unique and has their own strengths and weaknesses. We need to learn to accept people for who they are and look for a partner who will meet our real needs.

Wrong patterns of behavior
We all have our own patterns of behavior that we borrow from our environment. These patterns may be helpful or harmful. If we grew up in a family where there were wrong patterns of behavior, then we can carry these patterns into our personal lives. For example, if we saw that our parents are constantly quarreling and conflicting, we may start looking for partners who will conflict with us. But this is the wrong approach.