different temperaments
Two "mad" or, conversely, calmly detached partners - this is either very emotionally tiring, or insipid and boring. It is best when one member of the couple is “loud”, active, emotional, and the second is “quiet”, balanced, rational. At first, on this basis, skirmishes can occur and spears break. But the longer people are together, the more advantages will be found in such a collaboration. One will constantly excite relationships, add fire, peppercorns and life to them. And the second is to translate conflicts into a peaceful channel, to console and calm down.

different pace of life
Usually such couples are called "hurry and brake." And it seems that they are definitely not on the way. Well, what if one is tearing right off the bat, and the other is swinging for a long time? In reality, it turns out differently. First, a certain averaging of speeds gradually occurs. A slow man speeds up a little, and a hurried man learns to hold his horses. Secondly, such a pair is effective in different situations and is therefore strong. When it is necessary to act promptly, one partner "works", when it is necessary to weigh everything, think over, reflect - the second. In the end, everyone wins.

different hobbies
Situations when he and she do not part for a second, go hand in hand to the same gym, to the same films and to the same friends - an idyll. Very suitable for movies and commercials, but often unrealistic for life. After all, if you delve into history, you can understand that the interests of a man and a woman, husband and wife, groom and bride have always been different. A purely male world: hunting, fishing, technology, football and preference with chess. Women's priorities: clothes and books, needlework and social events, children and cooking. Yes, it's good if the partners have a couple of common hobbies. But at the same time, everyone should have their own world, their own outlet. Such unions are much stronger than those where the husband and wife are always together.

Miscellaneous education and professional fields
On the one hand, two physicists or two doctors seem to understand each other better. And, accordingly, be interesting to each other. But on the other hand, there are always risks with such a coincidence. The risk of carrying into family life, home and bed work. The discussion of which will take all the time. The risk of turning from a husband and wife, from a couple into only colleagues or business partners. And the risk of purely professional envy and competitiveness, which not only do not strengthen relationships, but also destroy them. When a rivalry between husband and wife appears in a couple, as a rule, this is the beginning of the end.