1. The leader of the family is a man.
Men are leaders, they want to be leaders, but sometimes women grab the steering wheel themselves, and then don’t know how to let it go. Leave the last word for him, let him make important decisions in your life, and he will take responsibility, otherwise he will let you steer "if you want it yourself - let it yourself", but then do not complain that he does not want to do anything. And if you think: “He makes decisions, then you won’t rake them up,” then I have another question: “Why is there such a man next to you? Who, whatever one may say, corresponds to you.

2. Men don't like being argued with.
Look for other ways to get your point across. As soon as you start arguing, you leave the zone of love into the zone of competition, where he will forget that he loves and start fighting with you, because you have become a competitor that needs to be overcome. But of course, this does not mean that you need to be silent, you just need to learn how to speak normally without accusations and criticism (Not "for fucking, how much you can ask to screw in a sweetheart", but "it's hard for me and I feel lonely when my request is not fulfilled") . Screw it in yourself - and you will continue to do everything yourself. But don't overdo it! You don't have to run for every occasion.

3. Men don't like being distracted from work.
Therefore, if you call during business hours, you can come across rudeness and this is not because he is rude. Men have a different brain structure, they are not able to quickly switch from a warrior (and a man needs to show a masculine character at work) into a loving one.

4. Men need respect.
Think about how you talk to a person in your life whom you respect a lot ... Now think about how you talk to your man? With the same respect?

5. Think about what annoys you about your man?
What are his qualities? And now the secret - if you want to change this, then you yourself need to develop in these qualities. And if it pops up "I'm not like that!" - this is the resistance that you either overcome, or nothing will change "We are annoyed by what reflects us"!

6. When a woman gets married, she thinks he will change, but a man, on the contrary, wants her to remain the same.
Stay the one he loves and be happy. I want to be next to a happy person. How does he see you? Smiling and happy? What are you doing in your life to be happy? It's so important.

7. Men think in terms of problem solving.
Therefore, if you say that something hurts you, for example, your head, then he will answer "take a pill" and this is a concern, he solved the problem. And if you want tenderness and hugs, then say so directly.

8. Trust!
And if you are jealous, then think about how to increase your self-esteem and why do you not value yourself? And if he gives a reason, then it was you who allowed him to do this to you. After all, we really form the attitude of people towards us. Do not believe? Think... Is there a person in your life whom you won't allow yourself to raise your voice to? Now is there anyone you can hit? It's not about you, it's about people. Some allow this, while others do not.

9. You can’t give a man advice when he doesn’t ask for it.
For a woman, this is just a desire to help, and for a man, a doubt about his ability to cope with the situation on his own.

Dear women, each of us has tremendous strength and energy within ourselves, with which we are able to create or destroy our man. The choice is ours. I am deeply convinced that every woman has a beautiful flower inside that just needs to open.