Men that women don't like:
liars;
irresponsible;
sexists;
sissy;
bouncers;
controllers;
untidy.
Reason 1. He cheats too much
“On the first date, he talked about his highly paid job, on the second - about the dacha in Italy, and on the third ... It turned out that none of this exists! Of course, I did not continue the relationship with the liar, ”
There is a type of men who like to embellish reality. Whether in order to impress the girl, or in order to seem better. But, do not forget that the secret always becomes clear, and all invented stories will be revealed. With guys who like to hide unpleasant realities and often come up with something that was not there, girls immediately burn bridges. Because no one likes to spend time figuring out whether they lied to you or told the truth.
Reason 2. The man does not take responsibility
“In relations with my ex-husband, I performed all the functions at once: I was both a woman and a man in a pair. I don’t see the point in continuing a relationship with a person who, in a difficult situation, cannot lend a strong shoulder, ”
No woman wants to see a man next to her who cannot come to the rescue when she finds herself in a hopeless situation. Girls value men's strength in guys and the ability to find solutions even in difficult situations. They want their partner to be able to take responsibility not only for themselves, but also for the family! When filling out a questionnaire on a dating site, be sure to indicate what is important to you in a relationship.
Reason 3. He devalues the achievements of a woman
“The ex-boyfriend thought that since I am a girl, then I have no right to express my opinion, but I must do as he says. At one point, I packed my things and never saw him again, ”
Many girls do not mind if a man dominates in a couple, is the main one. But it should be a healthy domination, and not neglect and rudeness to a partner! In any relationship, if one of the partners wants to take over all decisions with harsh methods, this will not bring any benefit. Only discord and misunderstanding. It is important for a woman to feel equality in a couple, respect and worthy attitude towards herself.
Reason 4. The guy is too attached to his mother and behaves like a child
“After previous experience in relationships, I try to stay away from “mama's boys”. I am not ready to compete with his mother in the fight for my own happiness.”
When a guy loves and respects his mom, there is nothing wrong with that. On the contrary, when a girl sees such an attitude of a guy towards women, she thinks that he will treat her just as well. But sometimes there is too much love for mom and ... She becomes the third wheel in a pair. There are men who do not spend even a day without a mother: they call her for any reason, they advise how to cook, clean or even take care of a girl and ... They can even go to their mother in a quarrel and scandals. Few people like relationships in which someone else is regularly present.
Reason 5. He only talks about himself and boasts endlessly about his achievements.
“Once I left a date because I couldn’t stand the man talking about where he was vacationing, what car he drove and how expensive alcohol he drank. I felt superfluous at the celebration of one person, ”
Do you want to never see a woman again? Just take the first date to yourself. Men are often taught that the way to impress a girl is to talk about their lifetime accomplishments, be proud of them, and endlessly repeat how amazing the man is now sitting in front of her. It's great when a man has many reasons for pride, but it's worth talking about them in a dosed manner. It is better to pay attention to the girl and learn more about her.
Reason 6. The guy is trying to control everything
“We met on a site for a serious relationship. After correspondence, we decided to meet offline. After a while, they began to live together, but Andrey did not leave the obsession that I could still communicate with someone online. But we discussed everything in time and trust in each other became even stronger. We have been together for over 2 years.”
It is always nice to realize that you are important and needed by your partner. But sometimes the desire to know everything goes to the extreme. The case of Alena and Andrey is an example of a healthy relationship, when all issues are discussed in a couple, and doubts are dispelled. But there are men who are silent about their guesses and begin to control the girl too much: call every 10 minutes, check social networks and track where she is at that moment. Excessive control makes women very angry, so they break off such relationships.
Reason 7. He does not pay attention to his appearance
“I will never agree to a date with a man who has unkempt nails and dirty shoes. His attitude to appearance mirrors his attitude to life”,
Some argue about the importance of appearance, while others send it to the background. But whatever you say, you are met by “clothes”. Women like to see next to them a well-groomed, clean man who cares about his appearance and does not leave the house in dirty clothes. You should not go to extremes and spend a whole hour getting ready, but being well-groomed is always important.
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