I would like to address a couple of things. The first is "personal touch", and the second is "sincerity".
I have read almost all the men's blogs, and quite a few mention that most all the messages they get, lack the personal touch, so to speak. That is, the letters they get from the girls seem to lack the girl's attention to what the man has written her about, and fails to answer any questions that he has asked her. The girls talk as if they are talking to a wall, and not the man. I, myself have had that happen to me so very often, as well. Why is that? I can only guess that it is because as some of the men say..that the girls write one letter and then send it out to multiple men, so therefor there is no personal touch to it. Or, is it because the girls cannot actually understand English so well, and so they do their best to write a decent letter, to hopefully just get by..and so there is no personal touch, so to speak, which is understandable. Only the girls know the answer, not we men.
As far as sincerity, what can I say on that.. Well, if a girl cannot converse (talk) with a man, how can she show sincerity towards wanting to be with him..? Then, again, if it is because she indeed does send numerous men the SAME letter, how can she even be considered sincere in her efforts to find that one "special" man..?
Also, I just attempted to contact a girl, in the last few minutes, and when I clicked on her name, her photo and info disappeared! I searched intensely for it, but could not find it..leading me to speculate..hmm..does this site have fake profiles on it, where some of it's employees attempt to get men to spend money..on some of it's offers? I have seen that before, on other sites. I certainly hope not! But..most of the girls do constantly ask for SOMETHING.. And, if these girls are not sincere in there search for their "special" man, but, rather, simply playing "games", it can be very costly for the men! And, I would think that I am correct in saying that..for the most part..the MEN on here are at THIS SITE truly looking for THEIR "special" woman! I know that I am..good luck everyone!