I too read most of the blogs on this site from men. I see how they misunderstand the
letters they receive, the sort of 'impersonal touch" as per say. I can only add to what has been said already. A vast majority of the women here do not speak or understand the English language. I was so fortunate to find the most incredible woman almost 2 years ago on this site. Every moment we spent in chat made me forget I was talking to a woman who understood little of my language. She wrote so well and answered my every question so fluently.
I am very lucky to have found my future wife here and every moment we spend together is a new miracle of the love we share. Do not misinterpret the words from these ladies as insincere or only a "form" letter. If they take the time to write you it is from their heart, done in the only way they know how to communicate with you in a very difficult language for them.
Not all these ladies are fortunate enough to have the means to attend English lessons. If you and she are together for a long time consider giving her the gift of
these lessons. It is only going to make your future correspondence that much more beautiful in the end.
I am a man so blessed to have my fiance understand me and the love between us is growing day by day. We laugh, we smile, and we share a life so wonderful even as we are so far apart. Love knows no boundaries and it will connect two souls no matter how distant they may be. I speak from experience on this and know beyond all doubts I have found my eternal soulmate.
Good luck to all here and be patient. Love does not rush, nor does it hurry what is to be.