I would like to wish all the lovely ladies on this site, and there are so many, a Happy Valentines Day. Over the past 3 years of being here and searching for that one special lady I have made some good friends and met many great ladies. I am still here and still searching. I thought I had found the one for me several times only to find that it was not to be but I keep trying. Some words of advice for you ladies is that before you send letters to a man please check his profile and read about him. It seems like many of you send letters to everyone in hopes of getting a reply. If you do send them and you do not get replies then maybe you are not what that man is looking for. Take the time to read and care about what is written and also when and if he does reply take the time to carefully read and answer his questions and comment on what he is telling you. There have been many times when I feel like letters never do get read or translated right and my concerns are ignored. So please pay attention to what the profile says and what the man is also saying in his correspondence to you. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY to you all and good luck to everyone in your search.