Someone will say that this is innate in people, yes, perhaps this is partly true.
I, in turn, want to say that the more difficulties and hardships a person went through on his life path,
the stronger it is hardened.
Through pain, we become more enduring, callous, and this is a well-known fact.

There are people who cannot stand it and simply “bend” under the yoke of one reason or another.
And this reaction is normal. Not everyone is able to take trials with their heads held high and go to the end.
I think that the main thing is to think sensibly, to analyze the situation with a fresh mind, and not to chop off the shoulder.
No need to expect that everything will be decided at the same second,
you have to work hard and that is the only way to get results.
Slow progress is also progress. The main thing is not to stop, but to do and act exactly as you wish.

No, this does not mean that you need to give a damn about the opinions of others (meaning people close to you, for example, family), you can and should consult, take note of something and, based on the advice and your own thoughts, make some decisions and draw conclusions.

I really want to say that all the tests will someday end and after that the person will move to a new level.
It's like an upgrade or vice versa zeroing. Purification of thoughts, the ability to look at things differently, more consciously and calmly.

Another important feature is calmness. Now I will try to explain.
This trait comes along with challenges, it is important to respond without panicking.

An acute reaction to what is happening is absolutely not needed, do not give in to pressure from outside, be at one with your thoughts and react calmly.

Everything comes with experience, people are our experience. Do not try to depend on someone mentally, sometimes it is difficult to make a decision alone, it happens that there is no one to open up and share the pain. It is at this very moment that a person becomes truly strong.

Yes, he goes through it alone, but this is the only way to completely disengage from someone else's wrong or imposed opinion.

It is important to hear and listen to yourself, not to try to go against the feelings and obey the pain.
It is important to follow your dreams and desires, even if someone does not like it.
You are the only person who will be with you for the rest of your life, only you.
Respect your own feelings. And the best time to start is right now.

I hope you found something useful in today's blog!
I would love to read and share your opinion on this matter.

Your Irina was with you🔥