Got your attention? Ok. Let's be clear. The best way to show a man you are not serious is to send him a "cut and paste" letter that anyone's name could be attached to. Sometimes you go the extra mile and put our name somewhere in it but it never asks us questions about our profile like you took the time to find something about us and you are showing your interest. I am sure there are men here that believe these letters are meant only for them but please....put a little more effort if you want to attract the right man. Imagine getting a letter from a man, "To whom it may concern". Because that is exactly how most of these letters read. A real conversation does not go as most of these pre-written letters are.

I am a serious man looking for true love and my time is valuable. Show me the respect that you want in return and you might actually find what you are looking for.