1. Not all that glitters is gold!
When a man meets an attractive girl, he really determines with his eyes all her external virtues, even if she does not behave the way he would like, says inappropriate things and laughs all the time. Natural instinct takes its toll and a relationship is formed. A man enjoys her beauty, equating her with an unearthly deity. “Swallows” obvious flaws, simply ignoring them, and enters the stage of falling in love. Over time, he begins to notice unwanted behavioral reactions behind her: inappropriate remarks, vulgar habits, or loud, ear-splitting laughter. The stage of falling in love ends before it develops into love! It’s just that the girl didn’t attract him with anything else, except for beautiful forms or a pretty face. She became uninteresting to him, and he left her. The man did not hear from her the words that a potential life partner should pronounce!

2. Do not be born beautiful ...
It also happens that having met a girl who is not particularly remarkable and far from the Hollywood dream, a man nevertheless makes an acquaintance. Hormones are not starting to play yet, but in the course of a conversation, he hears interesting remarks from her, she is quick-witted, follows the rules of good manners and ... carefully listens to what he says! Interest in her awakens as a good companion and faithful friend. This is not love at first sight, but the gradual building of strong relationships, possibly for life! Just in this case, the man heard her before he saw it! And he can love her ears and be happy with her all his life!

3. Love is poison!
There is another relationship option. A man meets an attractive girl, but as it turns out, she has a difficult character. He still admires her and puts up with the shortcomings in her behavior. So far, he prefers to look at her, rather than hear what she says (for example, throws a tantrum near the cinema box office if there are no tickets). Even if everyone around them says that their relationship is doomed, and he can’t stand it, the man marries his beloved, preferring to enjoy her “uniqueness” for the time being. But the first year of living together puts all the dots on the “and”. He begins to hear her reproaches, constant discontent, hysterical behavior. The man had seen enough and realized that he could not fall in love with any woman ... with his ears! Relationships end.

4. An idyll for two hearts!
A man meets a girl, attractive, and, as it turns out in the process of dating, also smart, interesting, sincere. They fall in love, the man notices that his chosen one is not only a beautiful girl, but also a good companion. She is responsive, attentive, and even listens to him without taking her eyes off! And he begins to listen to her conversation, not only looking at her pleasant appearance, but, first of all, concluding that he is interested in listening to her!

5. Dear, beloved, the only one! ..
What else do men like to listen to? Praise! If in your circle of friends you praise your husband for what a wonderful father he is, how he tries (!) To pay a lot of attention to the child, and the baby simply adores him, he will certainly try even more and love you even more for such words! You praise him, which means he is worthy of praise, even if she ate it and it is exaggerated!

Or if you praise your husband in front of your mother-in-law that today (for the first time!) He helped you cope with the cleaning - he will help you every time now, because the mother-in-law appreciated his work, and you will appreciate such an indispensable assistant even more!

But praise for professionalism and career achievements is the most worthy reward for male pride! Constantly focusing on the fact that your man will be able to provide you, if not now, then in the future, you are programming him for this! He will certainly strive for success in order to hear your praise again!

A wonderful father, an indispensable assistant, and besides, a successful specialist - this is a trio of magical phrases that every man wants to hear from his beloved woman! Men do you agree with this?