1. Speak openly about your feelings.
Being honest with your partner is very important.
2. Don't interrogate him about his past.
You are not an interrogator to interrogate someone. By doing so, you are forcing the man to defend himself and to lie. To get to know him better, ask questions he's interested in answering himself. About his childhood, his tastes, his goals, his desires, the tricks he set up at school...
3. ask about his plans.
Just take his thoughts to heart. And at the same time, tell him about your plans: the method only works in the mirror. But in the same way, when telling him about your intentions for the two of you, don't insist on an instant reaction.
4. Don't interrupt.
In a relationship, it's important to be able to listen to each other, to you and to him. If it doesn't work right away, try to start writing letters to each other. Whether by hand or electronically.
5. Think seven times, say once.
Before you start a scandal, ask yourself, "To what end?" And what do you think will come out of it?
6. Forget the phrase, "It's none of your business."
Personal boundaries need to be defended, but there are softer phrases. Think about it.
7. Don't try to change your partner.
The more, more often, and more assertively you try to pressure the recalcitrant, the more he resists, and the level of trust automatically drops.
8. Don't discuss a man with his friends.
This is taboo. If you really think they won't tell him anything, you're dead wrong.
9. Discuss sex.
Experts haven't yet figured out the formula linking its quantity (and quality) and level of trust. But discussing your intimate life clearly improves it.
10. Trust him.
Do not try to catch him in a lie, if a man meanly lies, sooner or later it will come out without your efforts.
11. be realistic.
From the upper point follows - if you regularly catch a man lying, it is unlikely that sincerity and trust will ever arise between you. Remember this.
12. Watch yourself.
13. Show him tenderness.
Psychologists have noticed: the more touching outside of bed, the higher the level of trust.
14. Praise him.
For everything, for a perfect tie and virtuoso nailed shelf. Nailing a shelf in a tie - it's so sexy!
15. Create comfort.
Serve a napkin at lunch, unwrap your laptop when you're watching a movie together... Complicated? No! Creating warmth? Very!