Foreign men are afraid that their sincere feelings will be used for selfish purposes. They are afraid of falling in love and being deceived. To open your heart to a person who will use their good intentions for his own selfish purposes. This is not a manifestation of weakness, which Slavic women so do not want to see from foreign suitors. This is an instinct of self-preservation, a simple human desire to avoid mental pain.

Because of ignorance, a woman who wants to meet a foreigner can easily make a bad impression on a man, the impression of a lady pursuing selfish interests, and thereby put an end to their acquaintance. You may not even understand how this happened, and why the man suddenly began to think badly about you and stopped communicating.

Listen to the tips that we have given below, they will help you not only avoid a false impression of you, an impression that we are sure you do not want to make on a man, but also help you protect yourself from disappointment.

Do not provide deliberately false information about yourself. For example, the date of birth. Getting acquainted online, there is often a temptation to "rejuvenate" your profile, thereby increasing your chances of getting acquainted with a man of the same age. But sooner or later you will have to tell the man the truth. How will you do it? What kind of reaction are you hoping for from a man? Do not count on the fact that after a few letters, the man will already be madly in love with you, and will simply dismiss your confession, let it pass by his ears. How a foreign gentleman will react to a lie is impossible to foresee in advance. However, one thing is true: a lie is a betrayal, it is impossible to build a long—term, real relationship on a lie.

Do not manipulate photos for your profile on an international dating site. We are talking about manipulations using Photoshop, smartphone apps, camera filters. Thus, you will be able to avoid, first of all, your own disappointment, from the reaction of a man when he sees the inconsistencies between you and the real picture that you artificially created. It is impossible to predict how delicate or rude this reaction will be.

Do not refuse to communicate through video calls. Free Skype, WhatsApp and Viber apps are now available to everyone. In the modern world, you can always find an opportunity to call using a webcam. It may not be obvious at first glance, but a person who categorically refuses to communicate using a webcam can use other people's photos in his profile on an international dating site and send them in letters. That is, to be a fake or an Internet fraudster.

Look for a relationship, not the benefits of a relationship. Appreciate men who are ready to do things for you, who have sincere, serious feelings, regardless of their financial situation.

Refrain from complaining about life and circumstances, about the lack of money.

Refrain from premature direct questions concerning the financial situation of a man.

A lie, even if it is small and, in your opinion, innocent, does not justify itself if you want to find a happy future and a strong relationship with your beloved man. Your man, your man will accept you for who you are. The disadvantages that you may be trying to hide by retouching your photos or manipulating your date of birth will be your advantages for a person who truly loves you.

Look for your man, whom you, in turn, accept as he is, with all his advantages and disadvantages, and do not change yourself for the sake of the opinions of strangers for you.